A Journey of Commitment and Decision-Making
I love sharing with my family and followers, offering a little bit of wisdom from my journey. As we embark on life’s journey, we often find ourselves on paths that bring profound experiences and enduring adventures. For my husband, Marcel Langhorn, and me, one such path has been the journey of marriage. We’ve been walking this path for 25 years, and it’s a journey that has taught us the value of commitment and the significance of the decisions we make.
With eight children and 11 grandkids (two on the way!), our family continues to grow, as do the lessons we’ve learned along the way.
In this reflection, I want to share insights that can bring clarity to what marriage looks like after 25 years, with a spotlight on the theme of decision-making. At its core, our message revolves around the pillars of commitment and love—the essence of our enduring union.
Commitment: The Bedrock of Marriage
Commitment is the foundation upon which a successful marriage stands. It’s a deliberate choice, a vow to stand by each other through all life’s seasons. When Marcel and I exchanged our vows a quarter of a century ago, we made a commitment—a decision to journey together, regardless of the storms that may arise.
Decision-Making: Navigating Life’s Waters
Marriage often presents us with turbulent seas to navigate. There are highs and lows, disagreements, and moments of uncertainty. What has sustained us is our approach to these challenges—a commitment to open communication and shared decision-making. We’ve learned that every decision we make, big or small, shapes our course and impacts our marriage.
Love: The Glue That Binds Us
Love is the glue that holds a marriage together. It’s not merely the initial passion and romance but also the enduring love that strengthens with time. It’s the love that keeps us choosing each other daily, even when life’s challenges weigh heavy.
The Black Diamond: A Symbol of Resilience
One of the most meaningful decisions Marcel and I made when we exchanged rings was to choose a black diamond. This black diamond represents our commitment to one another, even when things are not crystal clear and the path ahead is shrouded in darkness. Just as the black diamond’s beauty shines through its unique character, so does our commitment to weathering the dark times together.
Embrace Decision-Making
Our call to action for you, our cherished visitors, is to recognize the profound role of decision-making in your own lives and relationships. Whether you’re contemplating marriage, are in the midst of it, or are simply considering the idea, remember that every choice you make shapes your journey.
Commit to the love that brought you together, and embrace the conscious decision to walk this path hand in hand. It’s the choices you make along the way that will empower you to overcome any storm.
Thank you for being a part of our journey. May your own journeys be graced with love, commitment, and the wisdom of decision-making.
With heartfelt warmth,
Ruth Langhorn
